got a call on monday at just after 5 while i was in texas
they got the cheque at 4:57pm
it was deposited in my account on tuesday afternoon by my lawyer
more when i have the mental fortitude to tell you the details
i'm tired - still exhausted from a hard core 2000 mile drive (my parents) from here to texas in 3 days and a day long flight home wednesday and piling straight back into work on thursday
i have instructed my lawyer to update the divorce filing from 2007 and get it done
it should be done while i am in the sunny caribbean after christmas for 2 weeks
can you believe the stbx told my daughter she missed me?
maybe it's true,
but i think she should have thought of that before
I started this blog to discuss the downward slide of my marriage. That marriage has now collapsed and I am trying to put together a my life in a new configuration. I want a world that rejoices in infinite diversity, and is not ordered in small boxes and neat rows... I want to greet each new day with the freshness, enthusiasm, energy, and possibility of first light on a spring morning. This is the story of how I'm doing.
Saturday, December 19, 2009
Monday, December 07, 2009
aaaaaaarrrrgggggghhhhhh!!!!!!!
as sent to Smitten in an email moments ago:
my lawyer promptly called me back from the message i just left
the word he had on friday was that they had the bank transfers
her lawyer, that is
[my lawyer] "had a run in" with [her lawyer] and told her "come on - this
much time - this can't be anything but stalling"
her lawyer denied it
[my lawyer] pressed them for interest, because the only one getting the
benefit is her [stbx]
they promise expeditiousness
he thinks that even her lawyer is complicit in stalling, and considers
it to be quite improprietous professional conduct
he thinks maybe we'll see some cash this week...
Tuesday, December 01, 2009
day 19 of 7...
email to lawyer:
Subject: bank says i'm still on the mortgage, and there are no flags to indicate a transfer...
i just got off the bank with the branch in an official phone call to them about the status of the mortgage that my name is on
they tell me that there are no flags or messages with regard to the mortgage being transferred
they said something might be on a mortgage officer's desk, but that nothing shows in their system, and that they can't give me anything other than what shows up under my name
the lady told me that unless i can give them the name of a mortgage officer who is being dealt with they can't get any more information
is there any proof she has even talked to the bank?
is there any proof being offered by her lawyer that she/they are doing anything other than jerking me around some more?
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called [property registry]
my name is still on the property title and there is no indication of a title transfer request on the record
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i am seriously choked
19 days of 7