I have always loved the fall market trips. stbx-Mrs_C only wanted to go a few times in all the period we were married. Smitten jumped at the chance.
stbx-Mrs_C told me she loved to do such things before we were married but then dragged her feet about going. Eventually I just didn't bring it up anymore. Bait and switch, I guess...
As for Smitten, going to the gardens was one of the things she wanted to do, and talked about when we first met. She was very happy that i would put together the plan for the activity and then execute that plan. In her marriage she had to do the planning and follow-through.
Yeah - I know - I shouldn't compare so much - but I do. I review and I validate. I ask myself how I feel about how my life is going and if it is happy. I ask if my life is fulfilling my needs at this time, and i ask if my life is changed/changing in a manner to address things that made me unhappy in the past.
If something makes me unhappy - i'd better have a good reason for doing it.
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The Mexican figure that greeted us at one of the market gardens.
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Mr. C. . . . your cell phone takes really nice pictures.
Looks like a fun day.
Ciao
I've never heard the term, "market garden" before... It looked like a lovely outing.
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Oooooh I love stuff like that. Unlike the lady-like Smitten, I would have jumped over that bench and splayed myself out on the pumpkins. *snicker*
Me thinking ya do better not comparing... Keeps you living 1/2 in the past. JsT enjoy what you now have Mr. C.
Great shots! WHat fun!
you have pumpkins in canada???
who knew?
(giggle)
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