Thursday, September 06, 2007

read this post on another blog

i would like you to read the following post on AlwaysArousedGirl's blog (warning - not really worksafe)

Evil People Somewhere

i don't always care for what she has to say, or some of her actions, but she is an intelligent and often thoughtful person (in the middle of her EXTREMELY graphic descriptions of anal sex toys...)

this is a post about her marriage ending

it evoked pretty strong feelings in me

many of the replies that i read were very thoughtful as well. it's so weird how a crowd that comes around for anal sex, group sex, and masturbation stories is also thoughtful and that emotionally sensitive

please also look for my response to her post

also: a recent post that illustrates why her marriage is ending...

3 comments:

Crabby said...

Wow. She really lays her emotions raw in that. Beautifully written.

Anonymous said...

Hi Cadbury,

Thank you for the link!

I think my lovely readers come around for more than just the smut.

And I don't find it weird at all that they are thoughtful and sensitive. Thoughtfulness and sensitivity are two of the characteristics that good lovers possess!

Why wouldn't people highly interested in sex have the capability to express themselves verbally as well?

:)

cadbury_vw said...

hey there AAG

thanks for popping by here

i am a regular reader of your blog, and have been for some years. i read more for posts like the one you posted today.

i won't specifically defend my quickly dashed off post today... on reading it in the context of your question, i find my initial post to be judgmental in tone and rude.

i think highly of your writing skill and you have considerable insight

as for the question of why readers come around your blog, or their level of sensitivity - you would know your blog readers better than i would

i do not find either thoughtfulness or sensitivity to be exclusive from an active interest in sex. i do, however, have a somewhat more, um, jaundiced view of men - and their interest in graphic sex stories

on some other sex bloggers sites i have seen readers turn on the blogger when they delved beyond the surface and the prurient

i saw none in your comments today. i saw a marked level of sensitivity

it surprised me