Valentine's Day

So I'm contemplating Valentine's Day with Smitten. We do not have the kids.

I have two options before me:

1) Dinner out
2) Dinner at my place

I am checking for reservation on a place she wants to go.

If that fails, I think I will make a dinner at my place. I want to add a few extra touches to the event. I am having a grphic artist friend on mine make a Valentine's background for a custom dinner invitation.

I am interested in some suggestions as to things I could do around the apartment that would be "extra touches" that would help make it "special" that won't cause me to have my usual cold sweat panic in preparations.

I will have things set up with a table cloth and red candles. I was going to put a swack of other candles around and make the entire deal candle lit (have to figure out how to do lighting in the kitchen or what to make that won't require much light for final serving...). I was going to have roses or other flowers. I was thinking of flowers as part of the presentation on the plates as well. A small chocolate fondue and some fruit.

What else?

I was looking at some kind of crepe for dinner - probably seafood. A steamed vegetable, and a salad. I don't know on appetizers yet.

Not too much food because she doesn't really eat too much... I made enough for about a dozen people that last dinner. I think I will concentrate more on plating ideas for this meal. If I only have thre courses, each of us could have a plate for each course and I could do something funky with each plate.

Help me out people.

Please.